Intimacy is the key to make a relationship work. However, building intimacy in a relationship is not easy and certainly not automatic. It must be created and nurtured. Intimacy bridges the gap between two people. This makes two people more in love and blissful with each other’s company. If you want to work on this, here are some simple steps that can help you build intimacy and make your relationship last:
Talk about everything. Be open and honest about your feelings to create intimacy in a relationship. Don’t stonewall or just shut down. People who do this are just sabotaging their relationship. If you just keep quiet to end an argument, then the cause of the argument is still there and it is still unresolved. It’s like moving on with a hidden bomb in your relationship. Sooner or later this will come back and slowly destroy your relationship. You should let your partner know what’s in your mind and exactly how you feel.
2. Build Trust
Trust is one of the keys to making a relationship grow and building intimacy in a relationship. It is one of the secrets of intimacy. You should completely trust your partner to nurture your bond. Don’t let your paranoia get the best of you and ruin your relationship.
3. Quality Time
You need quality time together without other people. Schedule a date night once or twice a week or allot an hour or two every day for some bonding time. This can be a daily dinner, date night on the weekend or just talking to each other while cuddling. This will help you get to know each other better. Go for a vacation together to create the ultimate bonding experience.
4. Be Flexible
Give and take is important in every relationship. It is one of the most important steps to intimacy. Each partner should give way once in a while. Give way to the interests of your partner and he/she should also cave in to what you want to do in the future.
5. Don’t forget the Little Things
Usually, when we have been with a person for a long time, we forget about the little things. Because of responsibilities and other hassles from daily living, we forget about small but very significant things. Enjoy your time together, laugh, play and have fun.
6. Alone Time
Every couple needs to spend some time apart. You need alone time to do the things you want. Take up a hobby or spend some time with friends or family.