When you have in a new man in your life, your friends will most likely say one of two things. They will either say you two are the perfect match or you two are all wrong for each other. It could be that you friends are jealous. That may be your first reaction. However, those comments can also indicate that they have your best interests at heart and do not want to see you get hurt. Below are a few examples when you should take your friend’s comments into consideration.
You Cannot Relax and Be Yourself:
If you are not free to be yourself around him, that can indicate a problem.
You Quit Your Favorite Class:
If your friends have been telling you that you have been missing book club meetings or fitness classes, that is something you should pay attention to. This could indicate that your boyfriend is becoming your life.
You No Longer Have An Opinion on Politics or anything else for that matter. If you are changing your views to fit his, then that is very strange and it is something that you need to pay attention to.
He is Your Social Life:
Your man has become your social life. You say that you both live your own lives. However, everyone knows the truth. The truth is that you are happy and free to be yourself only when you are around your friends, not your boyfriend.